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Our family consists of Paul/Daddy. He loves his little girls, wife and family more than anything in the world. Velvet (aka MaMa Velvet or Mommy). I'm a photographer and very happy stay at home Mom who can't get enough time with my little ones! Lily (aka Monster or Princess). She's our 12 year old smart, talkative, beautiful young woman who is impressing us everyday! Addison (aka Doo or Addi). She's 9, artistic, sensitive, lovely young lady who has a quick sense of humor! Scarlett or Bo for short! She's 7, sassy, outgoing, cute as a button and has a passion for a few very select food groups! Finally we have our littlest princess, who has blessed us with her presence until it's time to go home. She's 1 and the happiest little baby around! She loves clapping, snuggling, shaking her head no, and laughing at her sisters! She's incredibly smart and uses sign language to communicate most of her needs until she learns to use her big girl words. We are loving on her with every ounce of our being!

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

How To Get Your Kid to Smile!

This came up last week when I was discussing a recent blog post with a friend.

She was wondering how in the world I got my kiddos to smile naturally.

Not your "say cheese and please for the love of all that is holy show some teeth!" smile, but their natural, beautiful, full of joy, reaches the eyes and soul smiles.

My children, having been forced in front of the camera for their entire lives, are not always the happiest about portrait time.

So to ease them into it, and get those beautiful faces captured forever, I have a few tried and true tricks.

#1. Bring a prop.

A toy, something they found on the ground, school artwork they're super proud of.

Make that "session" about something other than forcing them to pose and say cheese.

#2. Talk to them!

Talk about their day, ask them to look into your camera when they tell you about it.

Sometimes I don't even hold up my camera till we've been talking for a minute or so.

It's hard being in front of that thing!

#3. Try out a "will you smile for the camera?" once you think they're warmed up enough.

If their still not ready...

talk some more.

Ask them about their favorite cartoon.

Ask them about their favorite things about Mom or Dad.

Talk to them about their most exciting dream.

But most of all just let them tell you about what makes them happy.

You're bound to get at LEAST one beautiful smile.

and when all else fails...

#4. Forbid any smiles upon pain of tickling.

So. Much. Tickling.

They won't even be able to help themselves.

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